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*eldaGirl64
writes: Alrighty so me and some of my friends are hanging out today and among them is my ex boyfriend. He is still flirty sometimes but it is SO inconsistent. He always insults me somehow and I'm sick of it. I do have a new boyfriend (my ex's bestfriend) but I just want to show my ex that he doesn't run my life anymore. How do I get just the right combination of confidence, sassiness and sexiness to show him where he went wrong and maybe even want me back?
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reader, ZeldaGirl64 +, writes (26 April 2011):
ZeldaGirl64 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe puts me down and insults me because he wants to make himself look better in front of everyone, lol!You guys are right. I love my boyfriend, not my ex. I don't know why I didn't realize that before.. I guess I was just mad at my ex .Thanks!!
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (24 April 2011):
I don't think that's a healthy thing to be asking yourself. Why would you want him to want you back? I know that the attention may be flattering, but you're in a new relationship now. You want to show that he doesn't run your life anymore, but conversely you still want him to want you. Whether you genuinely want him to like you again or you just want to embarrass him, you'd be sinking to an all time low.
Your relationship is done. You have your dignity, so keep it. Don't play games with him; enjoy your new relationship and move on with your life.
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