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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Dear Cupid,My crush is mad because he thinks i ignore him, but that's not the truth every time I see him my heart skips a beat. Now he won't speak to me, which is confusing me, he's ignoring me because he thinks I ignore him? I don't want to lose another person that I care about
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (2 March 2011):
We cannot know for sure if he is ignoring you because he thinks you are ignoring him, we cannot read his mind.
You could make an experiment though : do not ignore him . Make a point to make sure he can't feel ignored.
Smile to him. Say hi. Go up to him and compliment his new haircut. Ask him his advice about something . DO something !
If he relaxes and reacts positively, then your guess was right, he just wanted to play it safe.
If he keeps ignoring you, ... alas,wrong guess and maybe he's just not that into you.
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