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writes:I'm so sick and tired of guys making me feel like I'm not good enough! For years I have felt worthless and never enough for anyone, but now I know this needs to stop! The only way I can change this is by loving myself but after having hated myself for years I find it nigh impossible to do this! Please someone help me! I want to change! I hate hating myself! Reply to this Question
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (14 February 2011):
 Why do you hate yourself in the first place? Right now my answer to you is think about this and how you can change or if you can't pin point anything that you want to change then realize that you don't have to and there is no reason at all to hate yourself. You are who you are and that is not someone to be hated. i can't tell you what to do differently but remember that any person you meet has something to offer you and you always have something to give back. It can be as small as someone to talk to but it really matters. Being a sensitive person like the person that I think you are you have so much to offer people in that you have felt things that they may be feeling and need help with. You're not worthless and you have more then you could ever imagine to offer the world. Now comes the point where you have to realize it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2011): You may try to remember things about yourself that you do like, such as your favorite food.
If there are things that you like about other people, is it because you see that they are like you?
When you've considered positive things around you, then you can build on the positive things that are inside of you and live the song of your life.
Seems like no one deserves to hear that more than you do, because you definitely are worth it.
~miss whocares
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reader, sharon L  +, writes (14 February 2011):
 i know abit how you feel, i am in a relation ship where the main love in my husbands life is gambling, i blame my self every day and say that its mt that is not good enough for him and he is making me suffer for being ugly, but i took a good long look at myself and relised i am perfect and i have done nothing wrong, if people put u down enough , if your like me you start to belive them, i went to see my doctor and she gave me anti depressents, they helped me see that there is more to life then worrying about what other people say, i even started to love my self again, i even go clothes shopping again for my self, i am a srze 20 and it took me alot to get over how i felt, i am now off the meds and im working onmy weight, you should go see your doctor for help, good luck,xx
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