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writes:Hey, My Question is about a man I work close too, he always (well used too) Stare at me, turn up wherever I was, classic tell tale signs don't think that I need to go back into them, but I gave him nothing back didn't even say hello back, as I just went blank around him. Has he gave up, what can I do to let him know it is mutual, without being too obvious but that can't be worst than what he must think of me now though, stuck up and rude comes to mind, my ex husband cheated on me so I struggle to let my guard down. Need a lesson on the basics of dating again I think. Help please please or have I blew it :/
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reader, WhenCowsAttack  +, writes (24 August 2014):
If you have just been ignoring him then this is super easy. Just walk up and say hi, strike up a conversation. The rest should naturally follow.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (23 August 2014):
 I wasn't aware there was a 'dating 101' course available. There's just common sense and basic human relations to draw from; try this: Put yourself in his place for a moment and think,"What is she thinking?" See if you can figure out what he'd like to hear or see to reawaken his percieved interest in you. You must also realize that you may have 'misinterpreted his glances as being interested in you. 101=If you are the least bit attractive he is and was interested in you even if in his fantasy. All men are interested in women in one way or another. You don't say why you might have offended him as rude or stuck up but I bet you ignored him at first...Right? Just start over.
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