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writes: my girlfriend of seven years left me in november and is now seeing someone else i was just wondering how i let her know i still love her and that i want her back. Reply to this Question
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reader, kev26 +, writes (16 January 2007):
kev26 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni haven't just thought of it because of this new guy and cheating wasn't the reason we split she just said that she needed to have some space to find herself and work out what she wants i have been trying to get her back ever since.i love her so much and know she is the one for me.i have spent hundreds of pounds on things like e-books on how to get her back and i have even tried love spells so i don't think i'm being unreasonable do you?
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reader, Daysie  +, writes (16 January 2007):
 You don't explain why it ended, however I would say phone or text her in a friendly way and ask how she's doing, find out if she's happy. It may be that she's moved on is with another guy, but give it time, let her know you're still around, that way if things don't work out with her new guy, she may just need a trusted friend to turn to. If she truly loves you then there will be a way back for both of you. But if cheating was the reason for your split then things will never be the same again, because in my experience that ruins everything. In the meantime don't put your life on hold, enjoy yourself and get out with your friends and family, make the most of your spare time. Best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2007): That's not fair. She has moved on, has met someone and now you want her back. Tough!! Is it just because she has someone else. It does happen. We don't want it but we also don't want someone else to have it. Sorry to sound so blunt but you have missed your chance. Meet someone else and put her out of your mind.
Take care
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reader, cece23  +, writes (16 January 2007):
 If you love her....just let her be happy....It may not even work with this new guy....so let her figure out what she needs to do. Focus on you right now....and don't let the love you have for her die.....
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reader, cd206 +, writes (16 January 2007):
 She's moved on and you need to as well. Think how you'd feel if you'd got out of a serious relationship and then just as you'd got happy with someone else the other guy comes back and starts messing with your head? You can't do it because if you really love her you'll put her first.
CD
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (16 January 2007):
 You don't. You need to move on.
Good luck!
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