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writes:I have never orgasmed during sex, and I want to so badly! The only times I will have an orgasm is if he orally or manually stimulates me, but when it comes to sex the only one who orgasms is him. Even in different positions it makes no difference. We have tried so many different ideas and techniques and nothing makes a difference! It upsets me so much, as I feel bad for not being able to and I WANT to, to better our sex life.Does anyone have any advice?x
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reader, gail crossland +, writes (16 January 2007):
 i too have the same problem and i agree this is very very frustrating. I have sough advice on this before and have been told that you have to clear your mind completely and enjoy the moment (not rushed) and feel the power between you both. i would advice trying to use a penis-ring or something that is going to give you the clitoral stimulation. remeber the key to enjoying sex is that the orgasm should not only be the ultimate goal- take it slow and relax with different music and no other distrations
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlready tried that I'm afraid, and it wasn't successful at all!
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reader, cd206 +, writes (16 January 2007):
 Most women can't orgasm through penetration. It's some unfortunate biological thing unfortunately. A friend who had the problem told me she had one once through her man stimulating her clitoris during penetration but it only worked for her once that way. For some people it just doesn't happen but I hope it does for you.
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