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writes:I am 18 years old. My bf of 1 year broke up with me 2 months ago. For most of this time and still now I thought no one could ever be as good as him and I didn't think I could trust anyone ever again. Yet now that I am interested in someone else i am hesitant about starting a relationship with him. This is due to the fact that I worry that the same thing that happened with my ex bf will happen with this guy. He is alot like my ex bf. My ex bf used to be the most loving caring person then during the last month of our relationship he turned bitter and mean. So this makes me doubt anyone who is nice. How can I know they are really nice or not? This other guy I like who has been a friend for a while, he says very similar things like my ex, and treats me soo well likem y ex used to as well. But i just find it hard to trust him because I keep picturing happening what happened with my ex. What should i do?
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (16 January 2007):
 You can't judge everyone by one bad experience. That's just a part of life. . . not everyone will meet up to your expectations, but you can't stop meeting people. . . or living. Enjoy your life and all of your experiences . . . good and bad.
Good luck!
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reader, cd206  +, writes (16 January 2007):
 Dating is all about taking risks. You can't know 100% if a relationship will work out or not but if you don't give it a chance you will never know. No relationship is perfect and there are never any guarantees but taking chances is the only thing that'll stop you being alone for the rest of your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2007): If you like him you have to give it a shot, it may turn out bad but it may turn out to be FANTASTIC! dont let a failed relationship stop you from finding a new one.
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