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writes:Strongly considering leaving him. topics arent being budgeted, or even discussed so nor are they changed. bills are still piling, ive no nest egg just existingsex life: his weight is hurting my legs hips and joints I work out to strengthen my body for him he refuses to workout regulary so has to wear a breathing mask while he sleeps for apnea. His ways are depressing me, guilting me and keeping me down. my daughters are seeing this i dont know how to letgo without hurting him, or my daughters. cannot focus on work school my hair is thinning slowly starting to fall out stress? when is the right time and how much financially will i need to move forward? we have 16 years 2 kids Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (24 September 2008):
You can live on surprisingly little.
I think you need to look around to get some prices of places to live. Then figure out how much you can make by working and see what you can afford.
Your daughters must see how the marriage is affecting you. Talk to them about how you feel. You may be surprised about how supportive they are towards you leaving.
As for him, yes he may be hurt but he had his chance to change. If you are suffering to the point where your hair is falling then you have to stop having sex with him and tell him you are leaving before you suffer a heart attack.
Good Luck!! xx
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