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How do I know what I am?

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Question - (12 August 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 12 August 2010)
A male United States age 26-29, *ichael1997 writes:

How do I know if I'm gay, bi, or straight?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010):

Try different things with a female then male or vise versa. You'll learn soon enough what you are. But you'll learn lables dont matter. Its whats on the inside. I experimented and found out I only liked guys. It took about two years to realize but I soon figured it out.

Good luck to you.

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A male reader, Kenj United Kingdom +, writes (12 August 2010):

Kenj agony auntYou will know by what turns you on. It may take you a few years to find out when you grow up and become more sexually active.

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A female reader, Elydiese United Kingdom +, writes (12 August 2010):

Who are you attracted to male or female

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (12 August 2010):

chigirl agony auntYou know when you find out what gender you are sexually attracted to. If you aren't sexually attracted to anyone right now, don't worry, you are still what we call a kid, and you're not supposed to have it all figured out yet. It will come in time, when your body and brain matures more.

In the meantime try not to focus much about the labels, and if you find someone you want to be with then be with them. The important part is that you feel comfortable with whoever you have as a partner, and that you are attracted to them.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010):

Depends on what gets you excited and turned on.

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A male reader, Cloverfield United Kingdom +, writes (12 August 2010):

Cloverfield agony auntI don’t think you can be really sure until you're abit older. Even then though, I don’t actually believe labelling yourself is a useful thing to do. My perspective has always been that people fancy who they fancy. Who's to say a straight man wont stumble across another man at some point he finds attractive. Does a one-off attraction mean he's gone gay, or bi. I don’t think so. Just try to be happy with whoever you fancy.

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