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writes: Ok, I'm a married man and I would love to receive anal sex from my wife. I have secretly tried while masturbating by using my hands and dildos. I want my wife to use a strap on dildo and do me. How do I approach het about this with her not being into kinky sex. Does this make me weird?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (12 August 2010):
 It does not make you weird, and several men also have this wish. You will just have to tell her about your fantasy and warm her up to the idea. Do not pressure her into doing it, or expect that she will do it right away. Just warm her up to the idea first and let her think about it, and explain how much you would enjoy it.
You could try and start off with something smaller and not a dildo or strap-on. Maybe she can try with a finger first. If she is worried about the smell she can use a condom on her finger.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): Ask her about her fantasies and then
Tell her yours!! It's not that wierd and as a woman I can say I'd like to do this to a guy !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): You're not wierd at all. Many men want to at least try this. Maybe not most, but many. My current GF did it on one of her ex BF who was into kinky stuff. Now, my GF is kinda kinky and very open minded. If your wife is not so kinky, start her off slow...ask her to massage your buttocks one time, then maybe tease your anus some other time. Tell her you want to see if her fingering you will make you cum harder, and stuff like that. If she loves you, she will aim to please you and should not judge. Chances are, it will open her mind, and who knows what crazy stuff is lurking in her head. I guarantee, its in there. Let the beast out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): If this is something you really really want then just tell her. However, if she does want to put on a strapon and f*** you in the a**, then don't be mad, because it rests on here being comfortable with a polar reversals of roles, something she might not be.
Actually, you could also have a one night stand with a gay man and have him penetrate your anus. That way you would get it out of your system.
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