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writes: I met this chap 7 years ago at Uni. He helped me with my work and asked me out repeatedly which I refused but made clear I liked him as a friend and kept my space and dedication to my studies. We drifted apart but always kept in touch via email...Recently, he came to see me-mind you I live in a different country- saying he was on a business trip for one day in my country. We had dinner together and I drove him off the next day at the airport.We caught up, uni memories, some personal questions like plans, hobbies and all. I feel he still has a crush on me, but wanted to test the waters. He's called me once since- it's been almost a month now and all i get is emails and chatter.Do you think he's hatching something, wants me to makethe first move in taking our "friendship" to the next level or what?any advice would be helpfulanywe never spoke on the phone for longer than 5minwe're never chatty..we're both shy and i feel i have put him off by refusing him so many timesbut then again he's always been polite enough to replyto my emails,texts...could there be more than friendship between us or what?!shall I confront him? write an email!!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (11 August 2008):
 It's hard to say whether he's just friendly or wants more. Did he mention having anybody, any relationships? Did he ask you whether you were seeing someone?
If you want to know for sure, you will have to take your chances.
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