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*pino640
writes:I met this girl in my biology class last year and we really seemed to get along. The only thing is that she always asked if she could copy my hw and, being the nice person that i am, i let her. and now a yr later she's in my chem class and she's doing the same thing. how do i know that she isn't just using me to get what she wants and then just cut me out once she's done? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): She probably is doing that and you're smart enough to pick up on it.
So: accept that she doesn't want you in that way. It's tough but life is tough sometimes.
Now - think about what you really want from her. Do you want her to massage you? Dance for you? Something else?
Make sure that you make giving her homework contingent on those things. Then years later when you look back at college and have forgotten the heartbreak, you'll still have the image of her body moving for your amusement to keep you happy in old age. And you'll know that she did it in exchange for *homework.*
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reader, Odds +, writes (5 November 2010):
 I don't think texting is enough to qualify as not being used, but if it's enough to satisfy you, that's great. Still say you should try to get her to introduce her cute friends, though.
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reader, spino640 +, writes (5 November 2010):
spino640 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice guys, and i'm sorry that i didn't put this in but i do text her. i didn't know it was THAT important until i noticed that you were saying "if she isn't talking with me outside of class". had i'd known, i would have added that in their originally.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): Haha I had one of those except he was a guy. A jock who had no brains. Yes, if she is not seeing u outside of class or does not hang with u otherwise, then she is def using your mind. Bro...grab that yard stick and slap her on the wrist lol or better yet make her write a hundred sentences across your morality board. Erase this chick. Peace.
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reader, Odds +, writes (5 November 2010):
If she's not hanging out with you out of class, she's using you. Try to get her to invite you to parties or introduce you to her attractive single friends.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (5 November 2010):
 Let me put it this way..she's one of those girls who like to skate by in class. Attend class because she's required to, not very bright, but needs a decent grade to pass. So why not befriend the smart kid in class, bat your eyelashes and ask to copy his homework? A year later she's still doing it, she's taking advantage of your brain and your kindness. Next time she asks to copy your homework, I suggest you don't hand it over to her, and politely tell her "no". I guarantee she'll stop talking you and find a new kid to copy off of in class.
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