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writes:hi im 15 and just got out of a two year relationship that has had its ups and downs but i guess it was the final straw. heres the story one night my ex and i were at a basketball game and we werent sitting by each other cause i was sitting by my other friends and we were just texting each other and she said she didnt wannna text anymore cause she wanted to watch the game and when i walked past her she was texting someone so i was like wow im real glad we cant talk but you can text someone else. she said well they texted me so its not like im guna not text back! so i said who are you text she said a person and i asked named? she said i cant tell you you'll get mad and i said why are you texting you ex she said cause i feel like it. I hate this ex cause he hurt her so bad by cheating and i said do you like him? she said no. i said are you guna like him when he comes back (thats next school year) she said i prbly will. and i was hurt by that so i just said well you can go be happy with him and we wont go out anymore she said im game and we just kinda stopped talking. i see her every day it hurts so much to see her cause it makes remember what we had and ive been hurting SSSOOOO bad and i miss her but ik us goin out isnt guna work but im willing to try to make it work but she isnt. so my question is "How do I know if she's hurting just as much as I am?"
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009): i surely agree with jessica04. i had the same experience too but luckily we are still together. i know how you feel about her ex and it's not your fault. if she wants to do it then let her be. and jessica04 pretty much said everything so i don't think that i have things to say just follow your heart and don't let your guards down even if you feel safe with the person that you are going out next time. its hard but its easy if you get what i'm saying
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (7 March 2009):
 There isn't any really way to tell. If she's desperate enough to go back to an ex that was so bad to her, then she probably is feeling pretty low.
I suggest you move on and let time heal your wounds. You can't control what she does, and it isn't your job anymore to protect her from ugly things. Just learn to get along nicely in public, and don't worry about what she does on her own time. I've learned that this is the best way to get over an ex.
You shouldn't want her to be hurting since it sounds like you two split up on as good of terms as possible. Wish her the best. If things aren't working with who you're with, then you should kind of be happy when you break up, or at least relieved about having that kind of stress out of your life. Just find someone who makes you happy.
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