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writes: hi, i gave my boyfriend a blow job recently and im not sure how he felt about it. It was my first time so id like ta know how it was for him but we havent really talked about it. We've been together awhile and can talk about almost anything but i dont want to jus come out and ask him how it was. We cuddled afterwards and he told me that he loved me, so should i just let it go at that and talk to him more about it next time? Also, i dont want to sound dumb but he only has hair around his penis. I mean he has no hair on the shaft or anything at all,its perfectly smooth, does he shave?
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (22 May 2006):
 Hey girl, Most men love the fact that you are giving them a blow job, its the fact that your doing that turns them on! If he came it would suggest yes he liked it! shame you coudlnt talk more at the time, but perhaps as time goes on you can feel that you can, mayne next time say things like mmm is that good as your down there, or make eye contact and see the expression on his face, something like that, or make little hints that your going down and would he like it done the way you did before or would he like new way! The only way to know for sure what he likes is to experiment, i think if you were doing it wrong he would probably tell you!
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reader, eddie  +, writes (22 May 2006):
 As a guy, I've got to laugh. Who the in the world has a hairy shaft? That would be hilarious.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (21 May 2006):
 I agree with Shania. If your BF came, then there's a good chance he liked it well enough!
There's a point that I seem to keep making lately, but I'll say it again: if you're having sex with someone, you should feel close enough to them to talk about sex, too!
Don't be shy, because you're not going to learn how to please someone by osmosis. Every person has different likes and dislikes in bed, and what one man thinks is dead hot, another might find disgusting. You can only experiment... and ask. You can say something like "Show me what you like" or "Is this good?" and get a lot of guidance that way, but if you're afraid to ask him, then maybe it's too soon to be having sexual contact with him.
As to hairiness, there's the whole spectrum out there, from almost-bald to "I can't find it amongst the undergrowth!" Given the way most guys would feel about a razor near their nobs, I doubt he shaves.
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reader, shania +, writes (21 May 2006):
 I doubt it....its perfectly normal for hair to be around the penis and smooth everywhere else,so i would say he doesn't shave his "shaft".As for the blow job that you performed on him,it doesn't sound like he was disappointed...so i wouldn't worry to much...anyway,you know what they say?...practise makes perfect.Just enjoy the moment and when there is a time when you are having a chat...say to him,"Did you enjoy that?"...I bet he says he does!
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