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writes:What is it like for males who are suffering depression? I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 8 months and he has been showing signs of depression for the past four or five. I am struggling to determine whether these are true signs of depression or if they are true signs of his character. If it is the latter, then I know that I need to get out. If it is the former, then I would like to understand more of what he is experiencing.Men: What is it like?Women: What have you done if/when your boyfriend/spouse is suffering from depression?
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reader, Teacake +, writes (19 November 2008):
 Suggest that he find help for the depression but don't try to help him fix this because its something only he can fix.
Everyone goes though depression at some point in life. It makes relationships very stressful because its out of anyone's control.
Tell him you are there for him as a friend, but it might be best for the both of you to put some distance between yourselves.
He can't help being depressed. But he also needs a professional to step in. Nothing really you can do about this other than be a friend and not get too involved in what is going on with him. Very sad situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): It sounds complicated. (No matter which one of the two). I don't think you should pursue this relationship. Relationships can be tricky as is, why try deal with all the extra issues. You seem very wise and level headed, get out before the going gets tough and you end up getting hurt or dragged down. (If he suffers with depression he should get professional help).
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