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reader, vina_101 +, writes (17 February 2007):
Sex is for men, not boys. Boys should not be having sex, because boys are not old enough or mature enough for sex. Why do you want to know this anyway? Are you thinking of having sex? I'm going to back up what Agony_uncle_r just said and advise you to wait for a while before you have sex. Wait until you're of the legal age and wait until you are mature enough to have sex. And most importantly to prevent regret you must ensure that you're having sex for the right reasons. At your age I don't think you'd be doing it for the right reasons. You probably hear all your friends talking about it and see it in the media and then feel that you have to be part of it by having sex. Well that's where you're wrong. You don't have to have sex now. Just because everyone else seems to be doing it doesn't mean you have to do it. So just wait and enjoy your youth and then when you get a little older you can move on and do things that adults do.
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reader, agony_uncle_r +, writes (17 February 2007):
first and foremost... your far to young to be thinking that way, im not going to tell you not to have sex, your a teen and will always think your right. but ill ask you to at least re consider wanting sex so young and wait till you find someone you dont just want physically but who you know is special to you.
most boys your age until about the age of 40 have very little else on their mind but sex so knowing if they want it isnt very hard.
whether they respect you for doing it or whether theyre just using your body is a different matter. treat sex with respect and please wait
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