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anonymous
writes:It was my school leavers party on friday night where all of my year and people from different people from other schools came to get drubk basically. I was with my friends which included this boy I know. we were drinking and smoking and we were quite out of it but we started kissing and he started to kiss my neck. he then started to suck and when we went for food I went to the bathroom and looked in the mirror... there was two huge, dark hickeys on my neck. I was trying different things with my jumpers because it got quite cold during the night and on the morning when I finally got my jumpers into a place where you couldnt see them unless I really lifted my head up. so I got away with it when I got in but what should I do now? Its really hot weather atm so I dont want to be wearing turtle necks all the time.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 May 2017):
 Go to your local chemist and buy maxfactor pan stik, it will cover it up until it fades.
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reader, 02DuszJ +, writes (28 May 2017):
 PWhen I had one a concealer stick worked best.. Any half decent brand will do as long as it's more than a poundI do want to say though that starting drinking at your age is extremely bad for you- you're still developing mentally and physically and alcohol is very bad for your mind. Not to mention the battering of your liver when you overdo it.. The younger you start abusing it the much higher chance of liver disease you'll get in the future..As someone that's had problems in late teens with alcohol abuse, i actually woke up in a bush once, without any of my stuff.. THATS how irresponsible and destructive it can be..Please you're lucky to be at that age to be STARTING your life as a young woman. Focus on having fun and finding wha you like to do- N having fun without alcohol... It might seem like a great joke but the more you drink the more you'll crave it and rely on it to have fun.. Dont end up like those other clueless twats that think its cool to regularly wreck themselves. Leave it until the time is right- legally 18 in UkTake care
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2017): Use a really thick concealer and dab it on. For future don't let people give you them, it makes you look trashy at school and unprofessional for work. Just looks bad!
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (28 May 2017):
 Well, To tell the truth. I'm a bit Jealous. it's been some time since my Wife has given me one of those. Of course being non imbibers she always has the presence of mind to put them where they can be hidden. Ah so you have a few days of discomfort and shame to live through.
My non practical advice to you is to be careful with the mind altering substances, Apparently they tend to lower your inhibitions. A small price to pay for that experience. Next time you'll use moderation and not end up in an even worse condition.
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reader, RubyBirtle +, writes (28 May 2017):
Try a bandanna type neck-scarf if it's too hot for turtle necks. Or a big chunky costume necklace depending on the location of the hickey.
And a Max Factor foundation called Pan Stick covers a multitude of sins.
Next time a guy sucks on your neck - push him off. Hickeys do look quite grotesque but lesson learned.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2017): Aren't you guys too young to get drunk?
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (28 May 2017):
 First thing, don't get drunk because it lowers your common sense and makes you vulnerable - had you been sober or only had one drink, you wouldn't have let a boy leave marks on you and you'd have probably been able to stop it if he tried to go further.
Also, smoking is a very bad habit. Please don't do silly things just because others are.
As for the bites, I know they're called "love bites", but this was not a "love" or even crush situation. Use light scarves to cover it up.
Please remember this for next time. Marks, when done, should be hidden. That said, as you are so young and not in a relationship, I'm glad they were only on a visible part of your body.
I know you'll want to experiment, but please be more sensible about it.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (28 May 2017):
 I believe you can do a lot with make-up. A light scarf can work in certain situations too. It will be gone in a few days.
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