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*herryblossommieko
writes:My gf and I are long distance a the moment and we are meeting in august. I'm stressed because I feel like when we aren't on the phone and just texting she acts completely different, almost like an asshole. If I text her long messages trying to get out my feelings she acts so nonchalant and pinpoints it on me like it's only my fault and I'm just being bitchy. It's so aggravating to me and it hurts my feelings. Should I just fallback and give her space and make her come to me? What should I do? ( I am a lesbian )
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reader, cherryblossommieko +, writes (21 June 2011):
cherryblossommieko is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thabk you all! We talked & everything is back okay.
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (21 June 2011):
 Relationships by text are doomed to fail. Texts do not show facial expressions, tone, etc. They are often misinterpreted and unsatisfactory.
Relationships are hard anyway..you are making it harder by having a LDR by text. How can you feel close enough with someone to be considerate to your feelings...when couples keep creating more and more space between them?
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (21 June 2011):
 Some people dont like to talk about impotrant things or how they feel by text. If she works they may be busy and not have time to text.
If i was you i would text her a bit less and see if she makes the effort to talk to you. Then if that goes ok, try talking about your feelings again when you see her in person and see how it goes then.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2011): some people don't communicate well by text or writing so it may come off as sounding uncaring even though that isn't what's meant.
or maybe she's feeling smothered if you're always wanting to get out your feelings. some times you do need to learn to deal with your feelings on your own instead of making it your partner's issue as well. it just depends
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (21 June 2011):
 Why not stick to calling instead of texting when you've got something lengthy to say...?
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