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writes: Hey, well i have gotten a question answered already. It has worked out pretty good so far. Me and my girlfriend broke up probably two weeks ago. "We" decided to be friends. We both go to the same church, so we see each other a lot. When i do see her she ignores me, and doesn't even talk to me! it drives me crazy!, friends is what she wanted, friends is what she got! Every now and again i get the look... the one of "well i like you!" and then i get the ingnored part. I made a few dumb mistakes.. but who doesn't and they were little things. But i still "know" this can work out, so i am giving her plenty of time to herself. But what should i do to open her eyes to me again? Do you think she will come around? Or should i just wait it out?
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (25 January 2006):
In answer to this i would say little things that remind her of your feelings. Pay her compliments, for example. The good thing about something like that is although it may make her feel a little awkward she can't really refuse a compliment without being seen as rude.
Other than that I would stick with waiting it out. Show her you can respect her wishes and give her what her wants. To be honest it is really hard from this position to tell whether she will eventually come around or not. She will however if, as you believe, it is still possible for you two to work out. Just stick with it, give her the space to miss you and hopefully it will all work out.
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