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How do I give him good head?

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Question - (7 November 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 25 March 2008)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hi,

im 18yrs old and this is my first relationship now my bf wants me to give him a head and i really don’t know how, may u please tell me how i can do that and how do i tell if im doing it right and if he is enjoying it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008):

well it does depend on the actual guy so you can generally tell by his moans or the way he carasses your hair or body.

start slow, just sucking the tip and using one hand to massage the base of his dick as you go on and get more comfortable put more penis in your mouth maybe using your other hand on his balls. occasionally suck his balls too they love that.

remember saliva is the best lubricant the more the better. good luck.

on a personal note you may feel more comfortable about doing it if you get him to do it to you first.

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A male reader, bighrnyguy +, writes (11 November 2006):

take your time, and let him cum in your mouth -- don't gag -- it will really turn him on if you swallow his cum

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2006):

Ugh a girl would say "licking".... Enough with the licking, women! That better be less that 5% of the total act, because licking is not going to get a guy off.

First, you do not have to be perfect the first time. We are not idiots, and dont expect you to be some ninja-harlot.

If you really want to deliver and you have no clue what you are doing, let him mouth fuck you. That way he is in control and you can't mess stuff up.

Beyond that, I suggest you watch some amateur porn to see what couples are doing. There are some porn you-tubeish sites out there where you can see what guys like. Watch the way they have their girl handle the cum- thats important.

Other tips: use your hair, ball action, slowly work him after he cums. You will need to ask to find out how he likes it.

BTW- this is all quite intimate and you are exposing yourself emotionally. Please make sure he is the right guy and that you two are in the right stage of your relationship. Then get freaky as necessary. Good luck.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2006):

Ask him to show you what he means.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2006):

i find lots of licking works well espaly around the tip!! ;)

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