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writes:I'm 16 and I have been with my first boyfriend for over a month now and I really want to french kiss him but the problem is I'm not sure how to go about starting it! At the moment when I am with him we always hold hands, he often holds me really close and we just hug for ages and then its a quick kiss on the lips or cheek. He's started hesitating when we break apart and I know I just want to kiss him again but I really don't know how to go from the normal peck on the mouth to something that will last longer?! I don't want to seem too easy but I do want to leave him with something more interesting to remember me by at the end of the day ;) So if anyone has any tips on how to take the kiss a little bit further it will be greatly appreciated! xxx
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reader, uncle bob  +, writes (10 March 2011):
 First, he might not be ready for this level of intimacy.
Or he may lack the confidence for this type of kiss.
Remember, you want to enter part of his body with part of yours.
Initially, the very thought of this can really "FREAK" some people out, especially for those that never done this before.
However, if you feel you really have to do this,
(by the way, I think your too young)
hold him closer, kiss him longer and slower, and slightly part your lips.
If he's a normal healthy young male, he'll get the hint.
If he doesn't, he's not ready.
What ever you do, take it slow. Nature will eventually find it's way!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2011): Well...start off with a light kiss on the mouth...you can then try turning it into a smooch...place your lips around his lower lip.then the upper one...suck on them a little...and then you can either wait for him...or when his mouth opens up a little; push your tongue in a little...it may seem a bit strange at first...and if he doesn't seem to dislike it..just carry on..explore his mouth gently,then withdraw.
And yeah...don't slobber or thrust your tongue in...that's a total turn off.
Be sure to take some mint first!
Hope its awesome...let me know how it goes!
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