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How do I get us started?

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Question - (5 June 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 June 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok so me and my bf have been together for a year now and when were alone were very intamate(culding,kissing,making out)he has fingered me we have talked about having sex and both of us want to how do i get us started?

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A female reader, Miss williamz Åland Islands +, writes (5 June 2008):

Miss williamz agony auntHey dear. Just read your problem its the same as mine. We both felt were ready but didnt know how to go about. I came to realise it happens spontenous. That day we engaged in some serious foreplay until we couldnt take it anymore and that when we did it. It was just the bomb! Goodluck dear and stop worry on how youll start.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008):

Excellent advice, I have nothing more to add....

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A female reader, Tremor Australia +, writes (5 June 2008):

Tremor agony auntFirst up (and I'm going to sound like a nag here, but so be it), BE PREPARED. Go and get some condoms and a quality lubricant, so you'll be ready when the time comes.

As for 'getting started', I've always found it's something that takes care of itself. I personally find it a mood killer when the sex is planned, so I find it best to just start kissing, and then go wherever the mood takes you.

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