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female
age
36-40,
*rincessjasmine
writes:hi, What if a guy called u once every wk, once every other week, to not calling in a month. He messages me online all the time but theres a difference between IMing and calling. I was the last to call hm (3 weeks ago) and I was the last to text him (last week) He used to call once a wk to once every other week, i dont get it, our convos were really long, why doesnt he call me anymore? May I call him? or no?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2009): A man who is really interested in you will ask you out, will date you and will call you frequently. This man sounds like just a casual, very casual acquintance so why are you so concerned about who is calling who and how often.
He is clearly not that into you. And that is about him, not you. Move on.
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reader, Windwalker +, writes (20 September 2009):
What do you mean, MAY you call him? Who are you waiting to set the rules for you? And why do you expect there to BE rules, when each and every contact between humans is unique? No, you can't call him. Or if that makes you want to scream at me, then...Yes, you may call him. By now, I hope you have already come to consider my feedback vastly inferior to your own gut instincts. You are young, this guy doesn't sound like the love of your life, so use this as a valuable learning experience. Observe how his actions or lack thereof affect you; pay attention to whether your reactions put you in a positive, uplifted place, or in a distracted haze. Life lessons are good stuff, the best, especially when you realize you are your own best teacher! Go for what you know.
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