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writes: Hi I was wondering if anyone out there can give me any advice. I have recently broke up with my girlfriend and want to go out and meet new people. I have a problem in that I can only seem to get girls interested once they get to know me, usually working together. I just don't really know what to do or say when in night clubs. I would say I'm a pretty average guy, not great looking but not ugly, I hope?Can any girls give me some advice about how to start conversations in this environment.Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2006): Well you sound like a nice guy that you are prepared to try, and you want girls to like you. I don't really believe it is possible for anyone to talk in a nightclub, and I'm not sure it is the best place to meet people personally. I would just make sure you dress nicely, are always happy and friendly everywhere you go, and just see how they react. If you are passing a girl you like, you could just comment on something nice she is wearing almost as you pass, and if she replies see if you can start a conversation. If you don't feel like she wants to talk more, carry on walking, and don't worry about it. Good luck, just be happy, it's the most attractive thing you can do!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2006): I don't care what anyone says but treating a girl well doesnt always work - first time i dated my gf i bought her the usual flowers, chocs and a card sayin i hope this is the start of something special and in the end although we are still friends we are nothing more at the moment although there is a mutual feelin. I just hope you have better luck than i did m8
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