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How do I get past my shyness?

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Question - (5 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 October 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Im Going out with a lad i really like, but im quite shy and i always keep hiding my face when he stares at me because i hate the way i look even though he says im pretty,, what can i do to stop me from being shy?

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A female reader, Lola1 Canada +, writes (5 October 2009):

Lola1 agony auntIt takes practise. Personally, I don't like it when people stare too long. It gets creepy. Presuming he isn't doing the "creepy-stare", you'll move beyond it in time. The best way to start is to fake it.

Pretend you are not uncomfortable for a few minutes at a time.

Also, feel free to ask him to stop staring. It can get uncomfortable for even the most confident of us, if people stare too often and for too long.

Good luck!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (5 October 2009):

Make a point of smiling at yourself in a mirror, and when he says you're pretty. Also, is there a reason that you don't feel good aout yourself?

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