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*ebeccaa
writes: I just split up with my boyfriend a few days ago and im finding it realy hard :( He said he feels like he wants to be alone for a while but maybe we can give it another shot when he feels better because he does realy like me. I have had two panic attack because of it i havnt told him because i dont want him too feel bad. I am feeling realy down, i cried all last night, is their anyway i can make myself feel any better because i feel like the only way i would feel better again is if i got him back. I hate saying im single and hes not mine anymore :(
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reader, Rebeccaa +, writes (10 September 2011):
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reader, Troi +, writes (10 September 2011):
My suggestion is that you talk to some girl friends and make plans to go out with them. Spend time with the people you don't usually spend time with or go out and take a walk while listening to music. Do the old things you used to do; hobbies, sports, shopping, etc. What I've realized from watching a lot of MY friends is that they get depressed when they break up with their boyfriends because the only person they spend time with is their boyfriend. When the guy's gone they have nothing to do, no one to be with, and it's like a huge hole has been pulled out of their lives. This is the perfect time to try and rebuild close relationships with friends and family. I suggest that you try not to think too much about your BF because you're sure to make yourself depressed and you'll just become a glutton for punishment. Instead, think positively and try to be around people- it's more likely to lift your spirits.
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