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writes: Hey , i known this girl for around 4 or so years, weve dated twice and its a bit complicted, we dated for a couple mopnths when we were younger but it was nothing serious, she would have liked it to have been although at the time i didnt quite know how to handle things and sort of took her for granted i suppose, wasnt that i didnt like her just i didnt know how to act with her, anyways cos she thought i wasnt intrested she went of with this other guy i knew, it didnt bother me at the time although it turned out i sort of regreted it but couldnt do anything bout it, she was with this guy for around year and a half, he cheated on her and they broke up,around a month or so after that we bumped into each other ,she calls me up a few days after that wanting to meet up, we did and we got together and were together for around 3 months ,things were a little hectic, but were also really good at times too, but things were a mess cos of the past and things that had happned, i really liked her and really hoped things would work out,but they didnt it was mostly cos she didnt understand things bout me,ive tried to explain things to her but when i do i either get too emotional bout things or she fires off and i end up firing back and things end up in even more of a mess and the wholr thing turned out nasty, i wanted her to understand things before she ended up with someone elese which she now has, so in a way its been like two lots of heartbreak for me and i have to face it all over again, i really care for this girl and really miss her and she knows it,but she doesnt seem to care, its been around 7 months since we split up now and i dont want to miss her anymore, i get girls but never want to get into anything serious cos of someother girl cheating on me with a friend of mine ,but i did with this one, ive been with better looking girls before we were togeteher and since we split up so its not that but im just stuck feeling empty or hurting from this one and shes a totall bitch to me alot of the time but i still want her ,so what the hell is it with this one, what do i do?
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (16 February 2008):
 I think this girl is the first girl you seriously liked... a lot! You just didn't know how to tell her that at the time due to your immaturity. She slipped through your fingers and you wanted to try again and when things were good they were GREAT! but when you got the chance you couldn't express yourself to her fully and tell her how you felt and if you did you became emotional and it was HER that couldn't handle that and ended up arguing with you! It may be that you're both just not compatible. What's your dates of birth?
What did she not understand about you? What were you trying to tell her?
~Eve~
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