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writes:Hello please help. I met this guy (22) at a bar about 3 weeks ago. I kinda knew him b4 but only through friends of friends and we never really spoke before. He asked for my number and we were talking and texting. He asked me when he could take me out and we went out for a few drinks and cinema. I ended up staying at his, nothing happend...i slept in his shorts and t-shirt and we only kissed. We were still talking and texting for about a week and i was going to holiday in 3 days time. He text me asked me if he could see me b4 i went so i said yes. I went to his the night before i went away and we watched a film and again i stayed at his, we kissed and he fingered me. In the morning he had to go to work so stayed at his and slept 4 a while then got a mate 2 pick me up. He txt me straight away when he left saying -'had a really nice time with you y-day, cant believe you'll be away for a week, i wanna see you now xx' all day he was saying things like this and saying that he definately wants to see me when i get back to take me out for dinner and that. i got back back from holiday y-day and txt him asking how he was and saying i was back but got no reply......so i txt him 2day saying-'have you changed your mind about wanting to talk to me??' and he replied by saying ' i dont mind talking to you but i dnt want it t go any futher cause thats not what i want at the moment, sorry if i gave you the wrong impression'............I AM SO CONFUSED AS TO WHY HE TXT ME THAT! so i just said 'ok, thanks for letting me know. take care x' coz i didnt want him to think i cared. he didnt txt back to that.....can anyone tell me why he said that and changed his mind all of a sudden?Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008): PLEASE TAKE NOTE; THIS IS A REPEAT POSTING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Aminopia  +, writes (11 July 2008):
Well i honestly think that he did have it mind first or he liked the whole thing you were having but didn't quite think it. so when you were away he either met someone else and decided to go on with the new one (and if he is someone who is like that you just don't want to be with him) Or he really thought it over when and thought that he really doesn't want to be in a relationship right away.
either ways he isn't worth it, coz no matter what his reason was he broke the news to you like that, in such a selfish chlidish way.
Sorry honey if was a bit harsh
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