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writes:hello,I need help... It's been a year since my boyfriend of 6 years and i broke up. I know it's been long but i miss him like crazy. We did continue to sleep together a couple of times after even though he had a new gf.. yes i know it's bad but i did not feel bad.. don't ask me why i would still be hooked after finding out he was a cheater but i could not help itNow i just found out they r probably getting engaged and moving in..its really hard for him, i kinda hoped he would be back...What should i do to get out of it.. i think that now we are more friends, and better friends..i think it's just harder because i don't have anyone yet..how do i get over this?
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reader, nologo  +, writes (16 June 2007):
 There are two ways to deal with this.
Are you sure you will never see him?
If you say "yes", then cross him out of your life and move on.
However, if you say "no" - make a pause till they get married.
You may get chance to make friends with both him and his wife.
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reader, LauraE  +, writes (15 June 2007):
The reason that you aren't over him is that he continued to see you for a while, and allowed you to think he might come back. He was using you. You get over him by stopping all contact with him, no exceptions. You are fooling yourself if you think you will get him back, or that the pain will go away if you keep trying to be a close friend of his. You must get out with your other friends, find other things to do, and cope with your sadness until it goes away. It's the same old obvious answer, but it's the only way. You will find someone else to love you - really. Good luck x.
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