A
male
age
30-35,
*asc9
writes:Hey everyone. Happy Holidays!!Ok so i need some help getting my friendship back with one of my exs. Here is my situations though:So we are both freshman at a college of about 14,000 students. We had a relationship going for about the first 3 weeks of school, but she broke up with me because there was someone from back in her hometown who she was more interested in. She seemed very interested in keeping our friendship going ( the only thing I could think of was that she didn't want me to hate her ) and we still did everything together, for awhile. And I thought we were having alot of fun, it sure seemed like it We would eat together, study together, and on game days (I play football here), I would give her my away jersey to wear, and she would do it. But then there was a period of when I was really busy for a few days, and when she wouldnt answer her phone, the texts i sent her, or the facebook messages i sent her, I got kind of mad, and I interpreted it as her playing me all of this time, and we got into a big fight about it. I waited awhile, and tried to apologize to her, and she claimed that she was very busy, and that I just misinterpreted her. However, now when i try to talk to her, she gives me minimal answers to questions, and tries to get away like as soon as possible. like I asked her a question the other night and her response was "yea, yea, k bye" and she walked away as fast as she could. A few more quick things. First, I just relized that after the first few weeks of our friendship, she would try to hang out with me away from her girlfriends as much as possible. Yet, she would never invite me to hang out with her when she was with her girlfriends, but i saw other guys hanging out with them all the time. And, she is going out and partying at frats almost every night, and drinking, but I am at usually here studying, and staying away from that stuff. I am trying to concentrate on my academics and a shot at a possible pro football career( highly unlikely, i ve heard it before, but something to shoot for still)so yea I was wondering if anybody had any ideas of what I can do? like I don't think she thinks as highly of me as she used too. but should I try and start over with her, try to surprise her somehow, or what?sorry this is so long, but i appreciate those of you who take the time to read it.
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reader, muffy +, writes (10 December 2007):
 well, fixing friendships arent that hard but they're not that easy. if she doesnt like bringing you around her friends,then confront her about it. just say "hey,why dont you bring me around your friends but you bring other guys? "but be nice or she wont answer.and also confront her about her small answeres shes giving you. just tell her how you feel or she'll never know and then she cant fix what she needs to work on.ok.:)
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