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anonymous
writes:hey i need helpyou see this guy im good friends with has recently broke up with his girlfriend, who i used to be frinds with.me and him met up a few times and he told me he has fallen for me, i have also fallen for him,he wants to be with me, but his ex keeps phoning him he had 85 missed calls in 2 hours the other night,he tells me he dosnt want to talk to her. yet he wont tell her to go away and leave him alone.we have been trying to work out a relationship over the past few weeks, but his ex keeps getting invovlved and trying to make him hate me.he met up with her tonight and he said it was to sort things out.he hasnt text or phoned me since, do you think i should keep waiting for him to sort everything out, or move on and find another guy?please help, i do really really like him, and not being with him makes me depressed and upset x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007): Well if he hasnt turned down his ex after the whole time she has got into contact with him then to me it seems like there is still something there between them. Maybe you should play the cards a bit with oth people. If you wait for him then its like waiting for a risk of disappointment. Be available but not too available where it seems as if you are desperately waiting for him to come to you when he pleases. Try things with other people.
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reader, muffy  +, writes (10 December 2007):
 i know how feeling upset and depressed is like when your not with someone you want to be with. dont wait forever though,just wait a little bit. ask him if he sorted everything out but dont bug him cuz guys dont like that and if you have to wait for a long time, then find a new man even if your upset that you wont be with him cuz it'll be worth it when you find another guy that makes you happy ok.:)
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