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*aybaybay_x
writes:I've always been a subject to my mun's insecurities and feel I am still that confident person but I've become sensitive to a lot of her comments. Not to do with appearance but she rubs a lot of things in my face. Highlights mistakes, I feel like I have to hide my emotions in my own home because she'll laugh at me if I cry.She's always negative towards me. My little sister used to love me so much and now its like she's my arch enemy. I still will do anything for herr but she's always being rude to me. We can't even have a few words without her smart mouthing.We all share a room. I'm 18, she's 13 and my other ss is 17. I've tried to pretend I didn't hear. I've tried to just leave the room (often to cry because its getting too much for me). I've tried to answer back butmy mum will jump in and say "she only treats you like that because of the way you treat me) :s...I get frustrated with my mum bevause of the way she is to me. She often wraps back on the fact that 'I'm doing nothing with my life" (I am now) but she always finds something.My sis calls me ugly, big lips. I feel she's quite insecure. She doesn't like to show her body. But I've never thrown that in her face cos I don't want to break her down like my mum has done me and I know the rude comments will get worse.I feel like I can't look anyone in the eye anymore. I feel used because everyone comes to me for differen t things and then turns around and disrespects me...I really want it to stop. (I'm looking into moving out but it takes time)
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reader, Kaybaybay_x +, writes (21 September 2011):
Kaybaybay_x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI go to college three times a week. I've run outt of friends i hardly do anything other than go to college. My dad lives in the same house but I haven't spoken to him for about 5 years now. He has issues. He controls every move my mum makes and has been doing it for as long as can remember, looking back. He's bitter and twisted. I have a lot of anger because of this and its unleashing itself because of the strain of my sister and mother.
I have a best friend who is in jail right now, but her mother is like a second mum to me whom I stay with sometimes.
I'd move in but she can't support me financial, nor can I as I don't have a job yet.
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (21 September 2011):
 Do you have friends you can stay with? Other family, like aunts or uncles?
Do you work, go to school, read books, visit with friends? What are you doing with your life? Do you believe in God? Where is your Dad?
A little more information and I think I might be able to help. In the meantime, stay strong and continue to avoid sinking to their level.
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