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writes:How do I get my parents to quit controlling me? Do not get me wrong, I do enjoy attending the Sunday school (I teach toddlers) and the worship service. But I hate going at night... it drives me crazy. I hate doing the same routine every Sunday. I just don't enjoy it. How can I convince my parents that I don't have to go to church to be completely in touch with God? I'm 18 and I think I should be able to make this decision by myself.By the way, my dad is a part of the Gideons organization and my mother is apart of that too and she is also part of a women's missionary organization, the WMU. So they are very religious... how can I make them see? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): ok, sounds like you're in abit of a hubble,1. gather all the facts up.2. make sure you spend enough time with you parents.(so you guys understand how you 'opporate'.3. Make sure you have gcse's and all that.4. Look in the newspaper, everday for avaliable jobs. 5. make sure the job gives enough money to cover rent, food, heating, air condishoning, If your diciding to get a little one, and car insurance.6. Tell them there are so many things you want to do in the world.7. say you want to try diffrent things.8. whatever you say make sure you say the LAST word phrase or sentence, it leaves the parents think positive on your idea, make sure you dont scream in at them.9. Take your job siriosly, when they want to do something with you, you say "sorry i'm sorting out stuff for sunday school" stuff like that.If you could get back to me, i need help too!
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reader, summer_love5467 +, writes (20 April 2009):
summer_love5467 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Don't get me wrong, i do belienve in God.
But I believe that we should worship in the way that is best for us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): Face them! tell them. You are now 18 years old and you have a right to decide of what religion yu want to believe.
God" honey i understand how you feel. I am 5 years being choir at the church just because i needed to prove to my parents that i am a good child for them. But then guess what! IT RUIN MY LIFE" following all my parents what they say about god. Im sorry to say this to all religious people" but hello" can anybody here can give me the telephone number of GOD?? because i really wanna know where this god really came from! is he is he? or is she is she? is GOD a Muslim?, Catholic?,Protestant?etc.????? You know what, Im tired of this religious topic. because im sorry to say but some people using this religion to manipulate people even their own family.. I know exactly how hard to deal with this matters and i tell you what if you wanna get out of this. Just get out of this. Promise you will be fine... Thanks a lot to this very good cupid site that we had a chance to say really what we wanna say from the heart.Good luck dear
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