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writes: My husband and I have been married almost 2 years, and have a 1 year old son together. We are both 21, which I know is kind of young to get married. Things were horrible for the first year, with our intense little good moments to keep us through the bad times, mostly because he gets a job and then decides he doesn't want to work for a corrupt boss, who makes more money than he does. I have tried explaining to him that the only way to get ahead in life is to start at the bottom and work your way up (while going to college) as I have been doing for a year and a half, and he even went to boot camp for 3 months, which I thought would help (it did for the first two weeks when he came back). I know it sounds bad to say this, but he's just a quitter... How do I get him to stop quitting everything???Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2005): He sounds like a loser. Dump him now and save yourself!!!
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reader, becky05 +, writes (17 July 2005):
I used to be like this myself with work (im 23) against the advice of friends and family i quit nearly everything i tried. Carry on telling your husband what you have been.
Tell him that eventually he will have tried and quit everything and what will he do then?
Also make him think about security for the future, does he think bout where he will be in 20 years time?
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