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*ageyz001
writes:hi i need some advice i have been seeing this girl online for 2 months now and we are planning to meet eachother soon the only problem is that she cant come and see me just yet because her mam hasnt met me yet(she doesnt even know her daughter(17)is seeing anyone yet everytime i ask her about if she has told her mam she keps on telling me that she is trying to tell her) what should i do about meeting her because she says that she doesnt want me coming up on the train but she realy wants me to come up and see her and my parents(im 20 btw) have said that they will take me up but not until they know that her mam deffinatley knows about us goin out please please please advise i really love her and want this to work so much for both of us Reply to this Question
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reader, pageyz001 +, writes (10 September 2007):
pageyz001 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioncan i just add that this is also a relationship that is taking place over 2 countries(technicly(sunderland, england and glasgow, scotland)) so her mam should really be told about this before i evn meet them shouldnt she???also my gf is saying tht she doesnt want to tel her mam untill i am up there with her!!please help i realy dont know wht 2 do
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reader, rcn  +, writes (10 September 2007):
 It's hard sometimes to tell parents about on-line relationships. You have to remember most of us didn't have relationships on line when we were your age. Many parents of teens don't believe on-line relationships are a good way to go.
I think in this situation, you should tell her you really want to see her, and if it's possible for she and her parents to join you and your parents for a meal. That way everyone can meet each other in person and in a non threatening environment.
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