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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: well i just started my relation three months ago but it seems something is missing. my boyfrend is a bit different then others. he is less expressive. he never gets angry, talks to me very cutely and bla bla but when i expect a good morning or goodnight wish by his own, he actually never do that. I often say, y dont u ask me something or calls me though it shouldn't be there in such an initial stage still i have to make efforts which is bothering me. He roam around with his friends and family but hardly get to see me. may be after two or three days. He is making efforts like now he calls but rarely, he chats but rarely, he does romance but rarely. i am really not able to understand how i should get his complete attention towards me. please help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (21 December 2012):
 you can't make him what he's not... his true nature is showing now at three months... he's not one to call you or romance you...
since you can't make him want you want or need it's probably best to move on.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (20 December 2012):
He is who he is. Its been three months, and you're just starting to learn the person he is. He is not going to change who he is, so if that person is not the right one for you, you need to move on before you invest anymore time.
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