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writes:iv been with my boyfriend for 4 months now, and we have a great sex life. the only problem is the fact that no matter how many hints i make, he will not give me oral sex. Iv tried everything i can think of except asking. I dont want to ask him because he obviously doesnt like the idea and i dont want him to think im trying to force him. I love him i just want abit of variety, i give him oral all the time. any help would be great
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): Honey you say you give him oral all the time. Well why don't you slide into the 69 position with your panties on and start going down on him. Get his head between your legs and lower your panty clad crotch to his face. When you are really going to town on him start sliding it across his face. If he doesn't get the idea or refuses...stop what you are doing and smile...telling him "do me and I'll do you". If he doesn't do you find out why? I mean will he kiss you after you've done him orally. He must have a hangup about a womans genitals. Tell him it feels really good to him when you do it...and you want to feel good too!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): Hi I gave the really long 5 point answer earlier. I forgot something... say please, it sounds dumb but manners do go a long way.
Happy and safe sexing!!!
22-M-Recently a virgin
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): Just tell him that he's getting nothing until he eats you out right and proper.
Make it a deal-breaker.
Honestly, a man takes care of this crap. A man makes sure his woman is satisfied sexually, no matter how he feels. The man will then reap his rewards.
This BOY is not a man.
Men like giving head and getting it too.
Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have to say a couple of those made me laugh! ur all right and i know i have to ask him but im worried he may think im trying to push him into it, and knowing the way he thinks it will always be in the back of his mind everytime we make love, then he'll feel obligated to do it. He doesnt talk about his past very easily either and doesnt like to open up so the idea of asking him about him being with other women is abit of a no no. i love him and i understand where hes coming from but it is just a little frustrating when you want something ur willing to give but cant recieve. Ill try your ways anyway! thanks for the advice it was very helpful and made me giggle :D
xXx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (12 September 2008):
Stop giving him oral.
When he asks for it tell him that it's your turn first. He can have some after you've had yours.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (12 September 2008):
 Don't know if I can't speak for all the man out there but Annalisa is right in my case. I like to pleasure my woman and I like her to tell me what she wants.
If you ask him and he tells you that he doesn't like it, well there goes the pain of finding a way to convince him. Sometimes, if we don't like something we'll still do it for our partner because we like to pleasure. But if we don't like something and there's no sign (or we don't understand the sign) that our partner want that particular thing, we won't do it.
Usually, well in my small experience, when my partner would give me oral, it meant that she wanted oral as well.
Hope it helps! Have a good day :)
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reader, Yos  +, writes (12 September 2008):
 Annalisa your comment made me laugh. Oral sex tips to an unmarried teenager finished with 'God bless' is a little ironic :)
To answer the question, since you've "tried everything other than asking outright" you have a simple task: ask outright. You can either discuss it somewhere non-sexual, and say something like "I'd like you to give me oral sex", or you can wait til you are both very turned on and say something like "lick me now".
Sometimes the fastest way to the destination is in a straight line.
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reader, charlie p +, writes (12 September 2008):
well what you might do instead of asking him directly is wait till hes rubbing you with his fingers, then act like you're loving it more than usual, get him excited then tell him to use his tongue on it. thats how my gf got me there!!! if that fails speak to him directly. maybe explain to him he doesnt have to stick his tounge actually inside because that may be why he doesnt want to.
good luck love!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2008): I want to be the first one who answer your question. Forgive me if I am not competent enough to give advice. To be honest, I am a virgin.
Try to spray perfume on your belly. You may also consider piecing your belly botton. It may seduce him to kiss your belly. Remember not to spray perfume on your pussy, because it obviously doesn't taste great. When he starts kissing your belly during foreplay, open your thighs wide.
More importantly, clean your clitoris.
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