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writes:Ive been split up from my boyfriend for about three months now, and i havnt had a day where i havn't thought about him, it's weird, ive never really had this before, ive had other boyfriends but they havn't been that hard to get over, but this guy, he was really something, we got on so well he was like a best friend also, we were so alike and everyone thought we'd last, and we did for a while, but then things happened, and i think it ended wrong, like i have that feeling that it wasnt meant to end there, like we shouldn't have stopped there, yano?There's been a lot of weird issues since we broke up, which was something i never thought would happen to me, there was no cheating, no were both not like that, but there was a misunderstanding, he basically thought i did something he was against, when infact i did not, remember this isnt cheating im not that type of girl haha, but yeah dont think i should say. Basically i miss him, way too much and i just want him to want me back and to come running back to me, because everyone knows he left me over something stupid, and that he was just freaking out, before all this happened he actually wanted to go on a break because of his school work and that and he wanted to concentrate which i totally get, but adding everything up, i dont know what to think. He's changing the way he is, he's not the guy i met and really liked, he's changed and is doing silly things and acting like someone else, he used to be all friendly and good to be with but now when ever ive seen him he's just like normal, and says words like 'chillin, peace, pale' and stuff, which i do, but he's like over the top and he's just not the old guy i knew, hes become arrogant, i just want him back though or atleast for him to come running back and to realise that we are good together.Any tips at all to get a guy to come back will really come in handy, i really dont want to give up on this one yet,thanks a lot for taking your time to help me xxx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 April 2010):
 If there is still a spark left in him for you , you may still stand a chance but if there is no more sparks in him , it would be very hard for you to expect him to come back to you .
Usually you will have to use the reverse psychology method to win him back. (You can Google for, 'How to win your ex back.')
If you want to attract his attentions , you will have to ignore him completely .
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