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writes: I used to lie to my boyfriend a lot so he cant really trust me when i tell him something.How do i get his trust back? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, AskEve +, writes (24 February 2007):
Trust is one of the cornerstones in a relationship. It will take him a while to trust you again. He will need to see by your ACTIONS that from now on, you mean what you say. If you are totally honest with him at all times then slowly his trust for you will return. If he finds you out to lie to him again then the trust will be gone for good. Tell him the truth at all times and always follow through.
Eve
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reader, cd206 +, writes (24 February 2007):
Trust isn't something that can be magically repaired in a day but the fact that he's still with you despite the lies shows he still has feelings for you. Tell him you're going to prove to him that he can trust you and then spend every moment of your life not telling lies (although you can of course keep the little white ones) The trust won't be immediate, it will probably take a very long time, but you'll get there.
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (23 February 2007):
I reckon the only way you are going to regain his trust in you again is to tell the truth and stop lying to him.
When he see's that you have been telling the truth his confidence in you will slowly build up again.
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