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writes: i was in a relationship and my boyfriend asked me question about past people that i was with he called two names i denied having sex with them because i was ashamed these were things that i deeply regretted. i did i gave him half truths told him a little not all. now he found out that i lied and i denied but then i confessed and he did not forgive me he said he does not trust me. but that was in the past long before we even knew each other. how can i regain his trust? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2006): Oh my, I feel for you hun. I may be wrong but I think he pulled off the oldest trick in the book. I think he was 'testing' you and no matter how you could've answered this question, he was looking for an excuse-to ditch you. Quite frankly, your past is none of his business. (nothing to be ashamed of) Had he deeply cared and respected you in the first place, he wouldn't have asked you. You would be amazed at what people overlook when they love someone. Your big mistake was you fibbed because you thought if you told him the truth he would leave you. (he did anyways and I am sorry) You allowed your insecurities and fears about this relationship get the best of you, hun. Learn from this mistake, hun...always have the confidence to tell everyone you date, the absolute truth. So I have to ask-why you want him, back in your life. Move on and be grateful, he's gone. Hold your head high and next time someone asks you about past sexual partners, just tell them 'That's none of your business' Be strong and value who you are..
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