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writes:Hi, 3 days ago I met a man at my friend’s birthday party and we hit it off immediately. :) We talked the whole time, and he asked for my number and we've been texting and calling a lot. The day after we met, he asked me to please come over, it was after work and he was pretty tired. He's 26, and a very successful business man, especially for his young age. He keeps mentioning how tired he is after work, but I really don't want to just go over to his house, I want to go on a date. Nothing crazy, but I just don't want him to think I'm some easy girl that will just come over to "watch a movie" in his bed lol. How do I get him to take me on an actual date without sounding rude?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 February 2013):
 Say to him...
"how about we plan something for saturday when your not so tired"
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2013): Its fair enough that you feel this way because your not even with him so he needs to put some work into wooing you. So when you next get into contact with him then you should suggest going on a date at a time when he isn't so tired and if he suggests that you just go around then just say that you can't and if you do this a few times then he should get the message in a subtle way.
Hope this helps.
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reader, Stelladra  +, writes (9 February 2013):
Just say you don't feel comfortable going to a mans home you don't know that well yet and that you'd prefer a public setting. If he says he's too tired then just tell him you'll go out with him when he's less tired then. If he isn't willing to take you out then it's a big ol red flag and you don't want him anyway.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (9 February 2013):
Just simply ask him to take you out on a date, or suggest the idea to him.
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