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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I wonder if anyone can advise how to get my partner to stop leaving me by myself for hours and not coming home till 11 at night. I know he isn't cheating or taking drugs. I work from home, so I'm often tied to being in the house, but I haven't always got time to do all the housework, but he just disapears off and doesn't come back when he says he will. I feel like he doesn't respect my time, and I end up not having dinner because I wait and wait but he doesn;t come back until I want to go to bed. I've tried explaining what I need, but it doesn't seem to register. He always makes excuses, and it makes me feel worthless. I can't be a housewife, work full time and deal with everything.
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reader, synchrohobbit +, writes (12 December 2011):
This sounds completely unfair to you. It is not as if he is just hanging out with his friends late at night; it also sounds as though he is shirking any of his responsibilities. Could you provide more information about the relationship? It doesn't sound like he is being supportive at all right now.
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