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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I have a situation with my boyfriend, he is very good guy and he does everything for me and everything that I talk to him about some aspect of the relationship that I don't like, he tries to fix it, the problem I have with him is that, it is dificult for him to spend the night with me at my place, he is always telling me, how nice is sleep with me, and the few times that he has spend the night with me, he fall asleep huging me. He recently introduced me to his parents, now he is living with them because he got back to college, and he is not finantially stable, so last time I asked him to stay, he told me that not that night because as his parents know me now, they will realize that he spend the night at my place and he will feel embarazed about the situation, because that day his parents knew that he was going to go out with me. My boyfriend is extremelly shy, and I am the first girl he has take home, he said that before he meet me, he was not interested in girls, he was only interested in his computer, but when I appeared everything changed. My boyfriend's family is a eastern european family where no one talks about sex, or relationships or things like that, that is very ackward for them. We have been together for 10 months, but I don't know what to do with this situation, he is 29 and I am 27, I need some views about this. Can someone give me some light?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008): Find out what his and his family's values are and respect them. If you don't feel you are compatible, then find someone else, but you shouldn't expect him to disrespect his family.
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