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writes:I really like this boy, and he's told me that he really likes me too. However he's got a girlfriend. I've told him that I'm not going to do anything with him whilst he's got a girlfriend, but it's soooo tempting!Can anyone please help? HOw do I get him to finish his girlfriend for me? What do I say to him to keep him interested in me, but resist his charm?ThanksAnon Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHiya thanks for all your help. I waited, and now we're going out. Thank you!
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (21 June 2006):
 Well hes got to want to finish with his girlfriend in the first place... and it seems hes okay with her at the moment, so dont go spoiling someone else's relationship. If it were you how would you feel, that someone came muscling in to steal your man ? Leave him be until he is single, if that does happen. In the meantime find someone that is single to direct your attentions to. Relationships where you steal a guy from another girl seldom work in any case as generally the guy is a bit of a player, so its only ever a matter of time before he finds the next girl. Focus your attention on someone is already single and you are llikely to have more fun that way!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2006): Agree with Dr Psych completely.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (20 June 2006):
 Glad to hear you are a clever girl and not willing to do anything while he has another girl around. Basically you can never control what other people do, but the best thing is to sit it out and see what happens in his current relationship. If you even found a way to get him away from his current girlfriend you could never be sure if it was your personal charms, or him looking for someone to fill the slot...who wants to be rebound girl? You also got to realise that if he is so easily tempted to dump this girl by your kind offers then he will be doing the same to you later on. If he finishes with this girl and is a single boy THEN you have your chance to jump on him...it is a waiting game really.
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