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*amantha1
writes:how to get back my guy who has totally ignored me after 7 months of being in a sweet relationship.i fell for him and he knew that.we were so happy together.The problem started between us when he let a female friend to come between us and he would never stop texting her.the guy who used to say that he likes me and my company, does not likes me any more.though that girl calls my guy as her brother i cant take it normally and started fighting with my guy for lack of interest in me. actually i never knew that they have brother -sister relationship till he fought with me.:( now he does not even talks to me, texts me.there was a time when we would never stop talking and spend a lot of time together.what he thinks now that i felt bad about the relationship with that girl.though i conveyed him that i don have any bad thinking about them he seems no longer moved.actually we had an ugly fight.though i repent on my deeds. he is not ready to accept me. its like being in hell. Every time i think of him tears roll out. i don't want to miss my guy.he said to me "i felt good with you very healthy relation until you crossed the limit to fall for me..i backed off from you for i know its not good for your life. you will never understand me" .Before he was fine with me and my love towards him.now he is not. he no longer responds too my texts and doesn't contact me either. i love this guy unconditionally.i want him back so so much .i will be the happiest if he comes back to me.my friends told me to move on.but i cant do that. i want him back.......please help.what do i do now?
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (21 January 2013):
 Hi
You can't do anything now, he is never going to come back to you I am sorry,but its a fact.
You have to stop texting and calling him,it's over and you are only prolonging the agony.
Your friends are right,listen to them,you CAN move on you just choose not to and all that's doing is hurting you more and for longer.
Let him and the memory go, tell your friends your ready to, they will sigh with relief and help you.
Now, go delete his number and any messages you might have saved.
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (21 January 2013):
 Honey, you ned to move on, hounding him with calls and texts is not going to change anything. You need to develop a positive attitide with a positive outlook and start enjoying life. Yes right now it sucks but it gets better with time. You are the only one that can decide how fast you want to heal. the longer you take to accept that this relationship is over, the longer it will take to start healing. Yes I have been there, but we eventually move on to someone better that truely loves and appreciate us. Keep friends and family around you, keep busy, take up a hobby all these little things will help with changing your focus and help you heal. Also if you hound him, it shows desperation and a clinging woman which tells him, he made the right decision to end things.
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reader, Dionee' +, writes (21 January 2013):
 I hate to say this, but you gotta move on darling. I get that you love him but you've got to let go of him. Another thing, you can't get over him or you won't get over him? Think about it. Respect yourself. That's the best favor you can do yourself, if you hang on, the pain will most likely continue because this guy doesn't seem to want you back. I'd think that is quite clear by his lack of communication. If he does come back, he won't trust you because of the last series of events and you guys will have problems all over again. Remember: we're all human, we can forgive but forgetting is the hard part. He Could come back but let's face it, he'll never forget this. Its best for both of you if you move on. Try to take your mind off things abit, try to move on. TRY atleast but don't lay about thinking about this guy and shedding tears over him . . . It sounds incredibly depressing and unhealthy. Take my advice, move on.
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