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How do I get her to start talking to me again?

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Question - (14 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 September 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

At the end of the school year last year, i was talking to this girl that was pretty much in all my classes. Things were going well and we were thinking about dating over summer. I hung out with her on a friday and hooked up with her, and that weekend it seemed like she was ignoring me. On monday she said she doesnt have time for a bf over summer because she will never be home. I talked to her for a few more days then just gave up and stopped talking over summer. Now that school started again i see her for about 3 hours a day. I said like hey whats up the first day but thats it and now its kind of awkward. i really do want to start talking to her again i just dont know how to go about it. Any ideas?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009):

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its not even that i want to be dating her i was saying last year SHE brought up dating over summer and i guess she was kinda busy over summer too cause i hang out with her friends all the time and she is never there. and in school i dont undrstand how id make her feel uncomfortable if i dont mind her whatsoever i just act like shes somebody i never talked to.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009):

If you want her to be your girlfriend, she is not interested. Too busy to see you over the summer???? Absurd!

She is not interested.

When you see her up close, just say hello. Nothing more!

Otherwise, ignore her. It sounds like you are making her feel uncomfortable.

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