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writes:hi i'm a 16 year old boy and i really like a girl at school. however like a lot of boys my age i'm quite quiet and i don't know how to make her want to go out with me and also how to ask her out? this girl is also quite quiet but very kind hearted. i really really like her but i don't know if she likes me enough to go out with me or how and when to ask her out? i speak to her often on the school bus and i also sit next to her in one of my classes. i make her laugh and we confidently talk to to each other and aren't afraid to talk to each other. the only thing is that we haven't ever meet outside of school and i can't ask her at school because she is always in a group of friends at school. i don't know what to say to her to meet up with and i really don't know how to get her on her own to ask her out!? my friend who used to fancy her, now fancies her best friend and wants to go to the cinema with me and the person i fancy plus the her best friend who he fancies. should i use that to get even closer to her, but then where do i go from there?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advise Jsffc, that's a really good idea to just meet up a few times outside of school and do fun activities such as bowling. I'll keep that in mind and I will also to remain calm as well. I should be going to the cinema with her, her best friend and my mate in the next school holiday in a couple of weeks, so i'll try and keep you up to date on my progress
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2013): Yes the cinema is the perfect opening go it will be a laugh and it will give you the opportunity to get to know her better. If the cinema trip goes well, get your friend and the girl he fancies to go out with you and her again. Do something fun like bowling, bowling is incredibly fun and you will have a fantastic time, trust me im 21 when i met my gf we went bowling for the first time and it was so funny.Dont rush in and feel like you have to ask her out either, relax get to no her proper well.other fun activities/dates should be creative and fun; ICE SKATING is perfect.Dont ask her out at sol, if you guys have like facebook or any social networking sites do it via private message. Or if you manage to get her phone number at cinema text her, but not too much.But remember their could be a risk that she could like you just as a friend. But i feel their could be potential there for her to like you more than a friend.When you ask her, be a bit more casual be like, Yo me and (friends name) are thinking of going bowling, you and your friend fancy coming. Also talk to your mate get him to talk to the girl he likes about the plans.Good Luck, if you need any help or advice give us a shout
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