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writes:I have my girlfriend that hate me and i got hurt but i still love her.when i call her she abuses me and don't want to pick my calls but me i still love her what should i do to get in love with her back. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2022): You must leave her alone. If you continue trying to contact her, that becomes harassment. When a person no longer loves you, your feelings have become void. They are no longer accepting your love, and you can't force them to.
You don't mention in the post why she doesn't want to be with you anymore. You just say she doesn't love you, but you still love her. We can't tell you how to get her back, you gave no details why she hates you.
My guess is you did something made her very angry; if she abuses you when you call. If she does that, it means she doesn't want to hear from you anymore.
It's over, please stop contacting her. You will just have to get over her. If you keep bothering her, you will either have to deal with a police complaint, a restraining order; or the men in her family may remind you why she hates you, and help you in a painful way to stop bothering her.
Your love is now one-sided. You're infatuated with a lady who hates you. Put it away, and save it for someone else.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (8 August 2022):
You shouldn't be chasing people that abuse you. This is more about your insecurities than love. Just know that a woman breaking up with you isn't the end of the world. Use it as a learning opportunity and remember that there are billions of women out there.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (8 August 2022):
 Break up with her, wish her well and block her number and leave her alone.
If she doesn't love you back then this is not a good relationship for EITHER of you.
You can't MAKE her love you.
And YOU might call her your GF but I don't think she sees you as her BF. You are not someone she even wants to talk to!
Leave her alone.
Mend your heart and find someone who will love you back.
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