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writes:1. How do I get a girl to hug me that goes to my school like a bunch of them that I don't even date2. And how do I get girls to kiss me for no reason and all ways hang around me 3. And how do I talk to them and get them to all talk and ask me to help them with there problems and be popular please help me I am thirteen and need help Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball +, writes (4 May 2011):
 1. Be friends with hippies, they are all about free love.
2. Hang around hippies at parties, free love coupled with intoxicants...
3. You open your mouth and form words. You then string those words into sentences. If the sentences you make are intriguing to the young ladies you are directing them at, they will often reply with sentences of their own. This allows you to ask questions about her that keep her talking about herself. While they are talking, it's important you LISTEN to what they say, and respond. If the conversation goes well, you will develop a new friendship. Do this enough and you become popular.
There are other roads to popularity. Look around your school. Who are the popular kids? Why are they popular? They are friendly, good at things, attractive, and charismatic. How do you stack up? Can you be that?
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reader, darkwind94 +, writes (4 May 2011):
 Try making a lot of good friends. If you want to be able to hug a girl all friendly, you should be friends with her for a while, and then she should feel comfortable about making any physical contact with you. Same with kissing, they need feel safe and ok about doing that. Being a girl's best friend will get you to be able to go out to places with her regularly, even to a movie or theme park. If you want girls to ask you for help, you need them to trust that you can keep a secret, you also need to let them know that you're always there for them if they need help. About being popular, sorry, I can't help much on that, but I do know that when you have a lot of good friends, many people consider you as popular. Be yourself, and don't do things that you might regret later. Everything will come to you if you work for it! Although I may not be able to say the same for myself, I think you'll be alright.
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reader, male_pessimist +, writes (4 May 2011):
Be yourself and be confident. Women love confidence. NOT put on confident. Real confidence in your true self. If you are nice and you care about people. If you are sweet, and treat people, especially women with respect, you'll be ok. Don't make excuses for your flaws. Don't let your flaws threaten your masculinity. You don't have to be a jock or athletic to be a man and demonstrate masculinity. All you have to do is be yourself. It's like this, I have a pink shirt I like to wear. Woman say it shows I'm comfortable and secure in my masculinity. Men think I'm a pussy. Screw them, right? Don't try to be cool, unless there are some things you can do that are cool, like card tricks, juggling, illusion tricks, etc. But be subtle about it. Don't be a big show off and the center of attention. Women hate that when it's obvious that's what the guy is trying to do. If you have some, oh I don't know, some of what people view as peculiar characteristics, don't hide them. Endeavors to hide your peculiarities are always futile. Celebrate them. In the long run, women with good hearts will appreciate your honesty, confidence and compassion and will pass out some hugs and kisses. Maybe not make out, but making out is way overrated. Heartily hugs and kisses are much more meaningful. Many girls find laid-back confidence cute! Consider Conan O'Brien. Now THAT'S one peculiar guy who has capitalized on his peculiarities. Watch his ads on youtube and mabye watch a few of his shows. Maybe do a search on peculiar famous or successful people. Consider people like Danny DeVito...and oh my gosh, check out Steve Buscemi, now that's one hugely successful peculiar guy. Dude, it may take some perseverance. There will be some time that this doesn't seem to be working. But when you do NOT waiver and you don't let people shake you...stay strong...don't let anyone change who you are, and the perseveranceand confidence will in the long run shine. Good luck.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (4 May 2011):
 Watch the Breakfast Club movie. Then write me an essay on who was cool and why and who was not cool and why. If we're going to get you a girl we'll need to get you to identify the differences between characters, emotions and etiquette.
Wow eh, love from observation. Easy peasy.
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