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Should I have gotten back to my ex when she rang me?

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Question - (7 June 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 June 2006)
A male , *hredordie writes:

Hey guys, status update, here's my last couple of questions for a quick background:

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-ex-got-bitchy-by-text-when-i.html

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-spoken-to-her-in-2-weeks.html

Update: It hasn't been quite 3 weeks yet, but yesterday when I was playing a poker game with some friends I received a call from her. I didn't answer the phone, but it really sent me for a spin, as I wasn't expecting it. It turns out, she just wanted to see what was up and she wanted to ask me for a friend's phone number because she needed to get in touch with him about my friend's band's video (which she is editing I guess).

Anyway, I'm glad I didn't pick up or call her back, but at the same time I think maybe I should have gotten back to her? I'm still confused as to why she contacted me so soon, I thought she'd still be upset from when I told her I didn't think we should speak to each other for a while (read previous posts).

What do you guys think?

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A female reader, auntie claire +, writes (14 June 2006):

auntie claire agony auntdear reader. i think your doing well to stand firm be proud of yourself for sticking to the agreement. keep it up.

thanks for the update its nice to know how you are getting on

all the best xxx

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A male reader, Lostandalone United States +, writes (7 June 2006):

Lostandalone agony aunt Its about you. If you didn't feel comfortable answering the phone than thats fine. You have to do what you think is best for you in this case. Until you feel good enough to answer the phone then do so until then just keep living. The only reason you would feel badly is that you feel like you would lose her for good if you weren't available. Fact is you have to make you okay if not you and her have no go anyway. Good Luck.

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